It's a big day for the Michna household...we ripped the band-aid off and officially said goodbye to the binky today. I don't know if it's harder on Alex or more difficult for us as parents. The binky has been a comfort for the first two years of Alex's life. It's gotten us through so much - bedtime, car rides, skinned knees, tantrums in stores, quiet time in church, etc. It feels like it's a part of who Alex is.
We have been gradually weaning Alex off the binky for the last several months. We had limited the use of the binky down to car rides and bedtime and lately, he's needed it less and less in the car. So as his vocabulary continues to grow, we felt it was time to say goodbye to the binky for good. We've been so dependent on it that it's kinda scary to move forward without it.
After getting advice from other parents, we felt the Build-a-Bear idea was the best strategy for us. We took one of his binkys with us to the Build-a-Bear workshop. We let Alex pick out a Bear to stuff and take home that day. When it was time to fill the Bear, we had Alex put the binky inside the stuffing before the Bear was all closed up. So this now became his "Binky Bear" and he would be able to sleep with the Bear and take it with him wherever he went - a new comfort object!
Overall, the experience went well. There was as small meltdown in the store before Alex said goodbye to his binky for the last time. But he voluntarily put the binky inside the bear and watched as the bear was closed up. The true test came this afternoon when it was nap time. We put Alex in his crib, along with "Binky Bear." Alex asked for his binky but we reminded him that he's a big boy now and the "Binky Bear" is holding his binky instead. No tears thankfully, but he did have to talk to himself for awhile before falling asleep. We'll see what tonight brings! I anticipate a few more meltdowns in the future but I think he gets it! Way to go, Alex!! We are so proud of you!!
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| Helping to stuff the "Binky Bear" | |
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| Alex watches as his binky gets closed up inside the bear. |
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| Alex & his new "Binky Bear" |